Last weekend
6mo
[info]kranberry4

I went to the Renaissance Festival with my two boys, and my brother on Saturday. Including tickets, for myself and two children (yes, I was silly and bought a ticket for the 4 year old, and then gave it away once we got there and I realized that we didn't need it) I spent $89 -- and was there from 11 to 5:30. I think it was money well spent - even if the Mall of America Nickelodeon Universe coupons don't end up being worth more than a ride a piece (we were handed five of them as we walked out, but they expire at the end of the month).

First stop was the enchanted forest - where they both managed to get very dirty. The boys are thrilled with their new wooden swords, but even more so, because several adults at the Festival sparred with them. They also liked the Royal Navy Adventure (so much that they asked to go back for the 4:30 session), and watching the skit of Little John throwing Robin Hood into the river. Mas was pretty impressed with one of the street jugglers - and I've watched him before, but never manage to stay to the end and throw money at him. They were pretty pooped by the time we watched the knife throwers though.

Food-wise, the boys liked their chocolate covered frozen bananas, and later devoured corn dogs. I had a bread bowl of beef stew, and a beef gyro (the filling was good, but the wrap was stale).

And no, I didn't dress up. Unless you count a white sailing hat with blue trim (Coolibar), long sleeve turquoise button down, blue-jean skort, and lace up cowboy boots "dress up". (For some reason the people at work asked me about my attire?)


When in doubt...
6mo
[info]kranberry4

Update on the les mills... The class is called bodyflow, and they offer afternoon classes at the Y on Monday, tuesday and Wednesday. Per day fee to use the Y is $10. Otherwise, I can have a five day pass to use the facility, including attending fitness classes and using the pool, and the registration fee is fifty percent off until the end of august. I'm so not into the idea of another fixed monthly expense. Wonder what their guest policy would be... Like whether pj could take nana as a guest (yeah, right).

Decisions, decisions.

In other news, after over two months of not wetting the bed, Mas wet the bed last night. And then this afternoon, he got my attention to tell me he needed to go to the bathroom, and then wet himself. Here's hoping this is just a hiccup, because as annoying as it is to have the six year old wetting the bed nearly every night while the four year old is dry, I don't want to go back to both of them being wet every morning.

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When in Kansas...
6mo
[info]kranberry4

We drove down to Kansas for the weekend to celebrate my FIL's seventieth birthday, and will drive home today. We brought the c-scow down and rigged it up on Friday. It waswhen fun! At one point, on Sunday, we grabbed four water guns, and convinced both of the boys to get aboard. We then chased down my sister-in-law and her husband in their sailfish and gave them a broadside of water. They refused to surrender, and we sailed around and delivered two more gleeful attacks.

Food was also good, white chili with cornbread and a random side of ratatouille, chicken Marsala and rice with a side of zucchini and bacon, a night out at famous Daves BBQ, and then turkey dinner! I ate too much in general, and didn't drink enough water especially for the amount of sun I've been getting.

We gave him his present last month when he was up visiting us, so there isn't a gift from us to open. But I think that we're all glad that we came down. Gotta get into a school-time routine once we get back home though!

Oh and I was actually posting to mention that I went to a yoga class on friday with my sister in law. Les mills? And liked it so much that I checked my area for classes. Turns out that they do have it at the YMCA right down the street! The combination of yoga, pilates and tai chi choreographed to music really hit the spot. Of course, I've only taken one yoga class before, seen pilates on a friends exercise video once, and seen tai chi in movies (fight club? And some foreign film about a plumber who marries a Chinese lady who subsequently dies).

I do not currently have obligations outside of work, family and grocery shopping. Just last week I joined a bowling team which goes every week from September through january. I don't want to get my hopes up, but i wonder how nicely these classes will fit in?

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Voice Memo
6mo
[info]kranberry4
When I was little my brother had a tape recorder. I would use it because mine required a microphone to record stuff. I would use it to record stories, like bats flying around a castle so that I could play it back and add more stuff to the story in real time. I would use it to play tape of the songs I learned in school. It was an awesome tape recorder.

About a month ago I realized that my palm pilot (a palm zire that I got from my aunt) can record voice memos. This came in handy when I was driving to work and wanted to give myself a reminder, but didn't have the cell phone to call myself and leave a message.

I now have 20 voice memos recorded by my four year old of him saying "What's going on here?!" And giggling hysterically.

He will probably never use a tape recorder.
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RE: Unsolicited Advice
6mo
[info]kranberry4
I am writing to give you some unsolicited advice about the boys and
the phone. YES I know, I am annoying.

BUT, here it is--

Mom's feelings get hurt when you ask the boys if they'd like to talk
to their grandma and they say "no", especially after she sends
presents.

So it would be great if you guys could work with them to make
them better at using the phone.

One suggestion--when they receive gifts from Mom, me, etc., don't let
them play with the gift until they have thanked the person over the
phone. Then it's a positive reward.

Also, I can tell you are working with them already (coaching them
throughout the call)...this is great! I am always willing to help them
practice.



I also tried to give unsolicited advice about the most recent telephone debacle. I explained to him that interrupting the boys to have them open a gift and then plunking a ringing phone on the table while the boys were trying to read the note was less than ideal. I also explained that the boys really don't understand how important anything is to someone who isn't even there. A pre-job brief is required. We did call back and leave a message after dinner, which worked much better.

Hopefully your mother can understand that the boys are four and five years old. Anything they say, or don't say, on the phone is a reflection of something going on around them, and not actually a response to her. In this case, the phone call was in the middle of a mother trying to cook dinner and a father trying to distract the boys from playing with toys that they hadn't seen in over a week. In other words, a mess. She probably figured that out.

He got pissed at the time and yelled at all three of us for "disrespecting his mother." So now I'm negative about the whole thing.

Regardless of my personal issues, thank you for the suggestion. I probably won't try withholding the gift pending submitting thanks - they have so much else to play with, I don't see it working out.

Both of the boys are getting better on the phone. They are more intelligible and able to tell logical, albeit very short, stories. However, they are very much "here", where ever here happens to be, and serious effort has to be made before the call is placed for them to say anything more than "Hello. Goodbye." if they are willing to take the phone at all. We'll probably end up taking you up on your offer to practice.

And... I hope you do manage to get a hold of him and talk about this. He certainly doesn't seem receptive to me.
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Four Hours
6mo
[info]kranberry4
I've been up and productive for four hours on a Saturday morning, and... I'm still in my nightgown. Amazing.

The boys are in St. Cloud with my mother this weekend for the occasion of "Granite City Days". I don't think they'll stay up there long enough to watch the hot air balloons take off, but they'll be there for the parade.

I am basically playing catch-up with housework and paperwork this morning. My inlaws were visiting Friday thru Tuesday, so I didn't do a very good job of keeping up with laundry, and then after they left I started spending time with Mom, my sister-in-law and niece, so the kitchen is a wreck too! I'm almost caught up on the laundry, so if I get the kitchen done before noon, I will get to mow the lawn and go grocery shopping. Woo-hoo!

To back up a bit, I helped Mom mow her lawn on Wednesday and then mowed my brother's lawn on Thursday (he's out in Wyoming until Sunday) -- so I feel like I'm building some useful muscles.

On the recreational side of things, the C-scow is now right-side-up. We finished gel-coating the bottom last week, and got it flipped over last weekend. The remaining repairs are: spot gel-coating the topside, reattaching the splash-guard (or whatever that V-shape is that keeps us from submarining) and finally re-rigging the boat. Hopefully that will be accomplished this weekend. Whether or not we put the boat in the water for the fourth of July is beside the point -- 2 years and one month after putting a hole in it, we'll finally have finished the repairs.

Next week I'll be traveling for work again. Apparently I'm going to learn something by supporting the License Renewal Post Approval NRC inspection at Monticello Nuclear Generating Plant. Personally, I would rather stay here and get some work done, but I've compromised by trying to take my work with me. Whether I will bring the six-inch stack of paper in or leave them in the trunk of the Volvo remains to be seen. I think that I would be looking forward to the trip if I had a project to go with it... but I haven't come up with that yet. Paperwork isn't an option... and I know from experience that reading a book just won't happen... so I'm leaning towards a craft or sewing project, perhaps going so far as to take my sewing machine up with me. But I'm not in the middle of any sewing projects, so I'd have to start a new one, and I'm afraid that I won't finish it, and, and...

Anyway, I'm off to clean the kitchen before I get too hungry for lunch :-)
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Morning Intentions
6mo
[info]kranberry4
I set the alarm to go off one hour early, fully intending - after seeing the size of my butt in the mirror - to put in an exercise video and muddle through it before my husband's alarm went off. I now have two minutes left to that hour and all I've done is fold one load of laundry. Obviously my resolve weakened while I was asleep. The only question left is: what should I do differently next time?

My options:
- set the alarm half hour early instead of 1 hour; increasing the chances that you will get up when it goes off
- put on exercise clothes as night clothes; increasing the chances that you will remember to get up and exercise
- stay up a little later and do the exercise video

In any case, I now need to fit a shower in, because I stink from weed-whacking last night, despite the fact that I didn't exercise this morning.
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If I were stuck in Kansas City
6mo
[info]kranberry4
I would probably go to the old Union Station. But I wasn't there long enough. We drove down Thursday - arriving a little after 9pm - and split the drive back between Saturday and Sunday. The graveside committal was Friday afternoon, with Mass and luncheon on Saturday.

The words at the cemetery were very appropriate, and it was really nice to know that she had picked out the site herself. At the same time it was uncomfortable, because the flowers didn't show up, it was raining, and the guy dropped the box of ashes while he was putting it in/under the bench. Oh, and this is my husband's aunt Mary who died. She had been in declining health, but still kicking, ever since I met her.

The mass was very good, with her grandchildren doing the readings, bringing up the gifts, and her daughter gave a eulogy. The luncheon was good, mostly because I loved talking to the relatives that showed up whom I had never met, and looking at pictures. I got some birthdates and addresses, and a whole branch of the family tree may get filled in... I also found out things about Mary that I didn't know (but might've guessed). She was particular about some things that aren't so important to other people. By the end of it, my husband accused me of being just like her (but only said that to me). He may have a point, but I didn't marry a lawyer!

The boys stayed with my parents, and are still wetting the bed (though PJ was dry this morning!), and a full desk of work awaits... At least I made it through last year's medical paperwork during the drive home. One step closer to filing my taxes.
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A bit overwhelming
6mo
[info]kranberry4
I worked 11 hours Monday, which kills my 3 unpaid overtime hours for the week, and I'm not authorized for paid overtime. So... I slept in 30 minutes and went to daily mass instead of driving in with Hop. That put me at work an hour and half late and just in time for my D15 (the daily programs engineering group meeting). Then I left half-hour after normal quiting time, so I only have two extra hours in for the week. There is so much to do that it wasn't easy to leave, but I know that I am going back tomorrow - so that helped.

At work I managed to finish up the stuff from Friday two weeks ago. But I still haven't done the stuff from the week before that, or my trip to Pheonix in January, and certainly didn't touch the stuff that came out of last week at Monticello. This is all bubbling to the surface in my mind because while I have it written down, I don't have a plan for what order I'm attacking it, or an idea of how long some of the items will take.

At home I'm supposed to be finishing a sewing project... or two. And getting my taxes done. The only thing I've managed to do is eat and get some tax documents together for my mother. And the item uppermost in my mind is writing Christmas thankyous.

If I had a plan... or I was making progress... perhaps it wouldn't seem so overwhelming, huh?

Stubby
6mo
[info]kranberry4
Hop got PJ some screw-drivers. I'm pretty excited because these are real screwdrivers. Fourteen of them. We're only giving PJ two or four of them, but it is really neat that Hop saw a package of screwdrivers and thought of PJ.

My brother, who lives in another state, purchased a tablesaw while I was gone. It is across the street in my father's garage. Apparently Hop had never seen a saw of that caliber for less than 1,200 and this one was marked down to 900. So a phone call and extra trip to the store later... I didn't even know my brother was looking for a tablesaw, but he got a nice one! No clue how they're going to get it to his house, but they'll probably take it down in June when they go down for so-and-so's wedding.

In other news, on Saturday I went and looked at some houses for sale. There is one that looked from the picture to me like a cinderblock that someone dropped in a field, plopped a roof on, and painted brown. It turns out to have a metal roof that looks like copper, and be 'bricked' in a type of colored cinderblock. It has a cinderblock foundation with a full basement, poured concrete floors on the main level, bay windows in two of the upstairs bedrooms, and a door out onto a non-existant deck off the third. There is also a door out onto the roof of the garage. The two-car garage isn't any larger than ours, but they built it in such a way that you could put doors on the back side of the garage and drive straight through. The house is not finished in the sense that there is no drywall or finished stuff. But the framing is finished, electric is pulled, the external walls all have sprayed insulation, and there is drywall sitting in the corner. I have a feeling that I'll be going to look at the house again - not because I actually think we are going to buy it, but just because it is so interesting and I want to see the inside (like how they poured that floor). Oh, and it's on five acres off of a gravel road.

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